OMG!! he's so cute ^_^
enjoy =)
0 **eMoTioNaL GarBage**
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
When we are hurt or oppressed, we may internalize the emotional injury. Then,
when placed in a similar situation in the future, we act in
a rigid, mechanical, “patterned” way. This mindless,
compulsive behavior is seldom useful, and it can be quite
destructive. Sometimes we re-enact the role we played as
victim of the hurt, sometimes we switch into the role of
the perpetrator. Either way, we are usually thinking
poorly — unable to evaluate what is really happening and
unable to come up with rational and appropriate responses
to the current situation.
All of us suffer from these internalized emotional injuries.
The more traumatic the original injury and the less
opportunity for healing ourselves at the time or afterwards,
the more rigid are our patterns. Usually we are
unaware (or just barely aware) of our conditioned behavior
or the events that trigger it. Even if we are aware, it
may be difficult for us to break free. Often we act badly
when we are interacting with someone else who is also
acting out some patterned behavior that meshes with ours.
Once patterned behaviors get locked together, the interaction
may get more intense, more rigid, and more
destructive.
** have to admit that it's hard to get rid of the emotional garbage but trust me, someday u'll have to get rid of it anyway..make way for others to open up ur heart..hurt once doesn't mean that u'll get hurt forever..life is about taking chances..it makes us more matured =)
0 ** LiZarD **
a friend of mine forwarded an email which is kindda touching (yeke? haha)
just wanted to share it wif all. so, here it goes...
This is a true story that happened in Japan .
In order to renovate the house, someone in Japan breaks open the wall. Japanese houses normally have a hollow space between the wooden walls. When tearing down the walls, he found that there was a lizard stuck there because a nail from outside hammered into one of its feet. He sees this, feels pity, and at the same time curious, as when he checked the nail, it was nailed 10 years ago when the house was! first built. What happened?
The lizard has survived in such position for 10 years!!!!!!!!!!
In a dark wall partition for 10 years without moving, it is impossible and mind-boggling.
Then he wondered howthis lizard survived for 10 years! without moving a single step--since its foot was nailed!
So he stopped his work and observed the lizard, what it has been doing, and what and how it has been eating.
Later, not knowing from where it came, appears another lizard, with food in its mouth.
Ah! He was stunned and touched deeply. For the lizard that was stuck by nail, another lizard has been feeding it for the past 10 years... Imagine? it has been doing that untiringly for 10 long years, without giving up hope on its partner.
Imagine what a small creature can do that a creature blessed with a brilliant mind can't.
Please never abandon your loved ones
Never Say U R Busy When They Really Need You ...
You May Have The Entire World At Your Feet.....
But You Might Be The Only World To Them....
A Moment of negligence might break the very heart which loves you thru all odds..
Before you say something just remember.. It takes a moment to Break but an entire life to make...
